A recently divorced woman will talk about her ex and scathingly describe him as a "sociopath" or a "narcissist." While it may bring her a sense of justification by labeling her ex, what does she really gain from playing the victim in her divorce?Many people, both men and women, experience a range of emotions when they are going through a divorce.He was probably very charming and charismatic, which is how a sociopath will win over the love and affection of his target (you).He knew how to play the victim so that nothing was ever his fault, and had a way of twisting it around so you believed it was somehow your fault.Umm do unattractive guys with insufficient employment and horrible personalities who think they deserve to date supermodels sound familiar to you? – Obsessed with fantasies about unlimited success, fame, power or omnipotence.“After I travel the world and write my book I’ll sell it to Hollywood, Johnny Depp will play me, then I’ll start my business and consult, giving speeches around the world for six figures…” etc etc etc. – Believes he/she is unique and special and can be understood by and associate with only other unique or high-status people. He is so unique and rare that no one can compete with him and you probably can’t even comprehend half of the amazing thoughts he has in his head.This honeymoon phase ends quickly, often within 4 months, as they reveal their true self — and being with a narcissist soon turns from a dream into a nightmare.
What he said is in large part why I am giving this message the way I am. But it may have been the most recent and most public and most blatant. Reece a long letter with my concern in the hope that I could give him another perspective. The background paragraph at the NPR website said that he struggled to find a different form of Christianity with the guidance of Thomas Jefferson, Walt Whitman, and other American writes. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it. You are mesmerized when he gazes into your eyes…A relationship with a narcissist begins well. He is charming, handsome, successful and full of compliments toward you.’ It just seemed like an incredibly kind of claim to make.” So in his book, he says that if Jesus talked like this, he is an egomaniac, and then in the interview, he confirms that conviction that someone who would talk like this is egomaniacal. Or if he were here, he would say, “Why are these 20,000-plus students standing with their hands and their voices lifted in praise to a God and his Son who are such egomaniacs that they constantly demand that we think they are the greatest?So here is Jesus saying: “Love me more than you love anyone in the world. Lewis, eventually professor at Oxford and great writer of Christian apologetics and fiction 60 years ago, was slow to come to Christ. And he says in his book that one of the great obstacles in coming to believe in the God of the Bible was that when he read the Psalms, the constant demand from God to praise him seemed (to him) to picture God as craving “for our worship like a vain woman who wants compliments.” In other words, he stumbled, just like Erik Reece, over the self-exalting commands of God that we praise him, and the self-exalting commands of Jesus that we love him more than we love our parents or our children or our own lives. Almost seven years ago in the March 30, 2003, issue of the London Worship is an aspect of religion that I always found difficult to understand. Why are all these young people cowed into doing just what these egomaniacs want them to do, namely, admire them and praise them above everybody else in the universe?